Our fallen culture does not honor the choices of a wise melanated woman becuase our behavior  aspires to follow divine law and not a European man made law.  We need our men back at home. Shhhhhh be quiet and be still and bring him forward from the inside. 

The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; that they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. Titus 2:3-4